We
are all growing old, really. So, we should at least try to grow up, to be mature, to be better. My age might be twenty something but my maturity is not above.. what? sixteen perhaps. So a shame.
I feel so blessed The Almighty gives so many good things in my life. I feel so blessed of having such nice friends. I feel so bless of living in such a good environment. I feel so blessed of everything ALLAH has given to me. Everything.
But, is that all enough to make you a good better person? is being a thankful person enough to see yourself as a better person?
Okay, here'sone of the simple question that can help you to re-think about yourself.
Will you marry ‘you’?
Of course, we want to have a good person to spend the rest of our life with. but, do we a good person enough to someone to live with?
Alright.. you don’t have to answer it out loud. Answer it by yourself. Listen what’s
your soul really whisper.
If the
answer is ‘no’, then, what the heck are you waiting for? Stand up and change! No
one could change someone unless he/she lets permission to be changed. Being in
a good environment isn’t enough. Well yeah, environment affects someone. But it's you, yourself, who can actually decide. It has to come from your own self, from inside
of you. It should be you, it’s only you, yourself, who can change you. (With ALLAH's permission, of course.)
And, if the
answer is ‘yes’, then, be happy.You already know what your worth is. At least, you love yourself. Keep upgrading yourself, then. J
I can’t go back to yesterday because I was a different person then. –Alice (Alice in Wonderland)
We are never be the same person as we were yesterday or as we will tomorrow. Changes is inevitable whether you like it or not, whether you realize it or not. All we can do is controlling it. To be who we wish we become?